AI: Not a Cure for Loneliness

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Mark Zuckerberg is correct that the nation is experiencing a loneliness epidemic. People of all ages are too often isolated from family, lacking friends, and relying on screens for company.

The chief executive of Meta sees technology as the solution to every problem. His recent statements regarding AI and loneliness reveal a misunderstanding of humanity's need for care, intimacy, and love from other people. Zuckerberg stated on a podcast that the average American has fewer than three friends but desires around 15.

He suggested AI could bridge this gap, providing the fulfillment that comes from genuine connections. Zuckerberg has not understood the impact he and other social media leaders had on the internet. What was once a tool for information has become a primary source of entertainment and social interaction.

The screen has become a barrier to real human connection, creating the illusion of connection. In 2023, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services reported that from 2003-2020, time spent alone increased by a full day per month. Close friendships decreased, and in 2021, about half of Americans had three or fewer friends.

This period saw a spike in interaction with faux social networks online. Facebook may have started as a way to reconnect with classmates, but it and similar networks have become addictive, mindless scrolling machines that leave people unfulfilled.

Zuckerberg's belief that technology can mimic human interaction is another unsatisfying mirage. People are becoming enchanted with AI partners, only to find genuine satisfaction remains out of reach as the bots consume more of their lives.

Humans need other humans, and focus should be on making it easier to form and maintain deep connections. This includes city planning and teaching children what is important. If our geniuses would devote their lives to these questions, things might improve.